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mak aiiihh..lamanya rs tak updet blog smpi ada dr paeds ckp dia come across my blog..... aww.wwww..malu aiii..huhu
its been a while since I wrote?bnyak keja?biasala kan hujung2 tahun ni... kalut dgn anak2?itu memang la harusss..tmbh zariff baru baik demam...last week tak tdo mana..asyik nangis sb hdung sumbat xle nk bf...
adehs...smpi migrain2 xckup lena...but Alhamdulillah ..this week dah ok..tdo dah elok..mkn dah bnyk..but hr2 kn msk mee dan sup...if nasi..errrr..kiok skit..adala smulut dua...

Zariff dah smkin cerdik...bila tya boleh bgtau dia nak atau x bout sstu.. cth tya..nak makan?dia akan angguk..nak mndi?geleng...n bnyk dah words yang dia bleh sbut... dap dap (sedap)..kalo tya nampak tak truck?(ms balik drpd pjbt ptg) dia akn say :mpakkk... oke..then he understands..bnyk bnda suruh buat or ambil dia tahu nak buat...

but apa yg merisaukan dia pnya prgi suka baling barang dan amuks isss sooooooo much aggressive..hr tu dia bling hp kat muka ai...adehsss...sakittt giloo..and anther time dia bling hp opah dia yang lama n berat tu kat kpla ai..adehsss..bnjol u...tak tahu knapa jd gitu n how to treat or hndle..n if dia nak or tak dpt something, dan dan dia baring atas lntai and hntak2 kaki or kpla mana yg dan...adehsss..zaffran dulu xmcm ni...zariff aii prsn if dia nak sumtg, if xdpt dia akan amuks..if bnd di tgn dia n org minta dia tk bg, rebut saja,dia akan amuks...or if dia bling brg abah marah, dan dan dia amuks wpun sblm tu dia sgt baik n behave... so dgn dia, pgasuh dia ckp..kn ckp elok2..mnta elok2 dgn dia...smpi dia bg..if dia xbg,distrct cara lain spya dia bg atau dia nak amik bnda lain.kn pujuk.so kesimpulannya dgn zariff, kena slow down n bannyaaakkkk sabarr..antra zaffran dan zariff trasa zariff la lbih mcabar nak jaga dpd kcik..dgn xtdoq mlm nya..amuk tgh mlm sb yg taktahu...

but dia seorg budak yg sgt suweetttttt...if kiss ibu msti kiri kanan dan atas dahi...if nmpk ibu dtg d nsrri mst dah lari smbyi balik almari sb nak ibunya dtg n cari dia....cakap nya lbih cpt dan jelas dpd zaffran...dia xbnyk mulut..but once dia buka mulut, dia mmg akan bisg..sllu main pun snyap2 sorg dia..kcuali dia amuk..huhu...
bila dia start amuks, saya sudah wirid dlm hati...'sabar laa sabar laa sabar la..." smetimes siap ckp "Ya Allah!!!!!bg laaa ibu sabar dan lmbut hati dgn adik zariff niiiii!!'  n satg zaffran tetiba..."aaaaminnnn"  hahah,,trus xjd marah...adehssss

Zaffran pulak smkin matang...wpun still amuks lg at times..but smkin matang..kdg bila ibu dan abah yang bbincang skit means abah or ibu in a bit of heated discussion or discussion biasa2 pun. dia kan.. "takpe takpe..jgn gaduh jgn gaduh...cukup cukup" nak tgelak pun ada...dah boleh mndi sndri, mkn sndri.pki bju sndri..but still most of the times nak mnja.."nak ibu siramm..nak ibu suap..nak ibu bilas...nak ibu gosok gigi...." 

Owh..zaffran ada tiga terms utk mandi . 
1 : mandi means mandi dan bersabun
2: siram means ibu siramkan dgn shower dan dia sabun sndri
3: bilas means mandi tanpa sabun...

 pning juga kpala kdg tu.....nak mnum air milo half cup ja..if bncuh bnyak dia xmau mnum..so kn bncuh sdkit sj utk dia...nak tdo, kena main gntel siku ibu...adehs...lemah den... rmbut nak sikat ada style dia..ade remos ke depan...haish.... bnyak khendak dia is good means dia smkin matang dan pndi bdikari n tahu apa dia mau..

but all in all my kids are growing up well..but ibu dan abah nya...adakah smkin membesar scara emotionally dan mentally utk mdidik anak2? hmmm....tepuk dada tya iman...

kdg2 rs. I dont want anymore kids..I want to have my me time to do watever I want..I want to be able to sleep at night puas2...I want to be able to eat without hassle n uninterrupted....to read to travel etc..

but bila pikir...smua kalut2 n pnt ni ms anak kcil ja..once anak dah besar..then I would have all the time nak baca novel, nak mgaji, nak mkn.nak tido etc...but smpt smpi ke umur nak buat smua tu?hahah..Allah ja yg tau...bak kata Prof Muhaya. if say kita mcm nak bersenang lenang taknak susah lgsg, tggu hdup di syurga nanti..ms tu apa sj kita boleh buat tk pyh pikir apa satu..but smntra nak cpi khudpan di syurga yang seronok tu, msti la kena susah pyh dulu kan..sapa nak bg bnda yang best best secara free?btul tak? sooo kn la bnyak sabar ibu qay....Allah takkan dtgkan ujian yang tak mmpu saya nak hndle..btul kan...hihi...

so till later..

POSt yang taktahu apa tajuk..

saya dtg dpd famly yang ramai...7 adik beradik smuanya... saya anak sulung dlm famly, cucu kedua famly blah ayah saya..ms sy kcil2 dahulu saya yg sllu jd leader utk sepupu dan adik2 saya.. ala2 big boss gitu..uhu...


sy mbesar dlm persekitaran yang unik...sy tak pg tadika mcm bdk lain..but ummi sy homeschool saya...ms umur 5 tahun saya kembali ke negeri kelahiran sy...sy bersekolah di sana..di dalam kls saya, hanya ada sorg bdk arab dan yang lain non muslim..bila hari ahad, semua org pg ke church, ada sorg cikgu sy akan stay bsama sy dgn kawan arab saya tu d dalam kls...sy tak igt nama dia..tp sy igt mata dia sgt cntik...dan dia msti la sgt hensem skrg kan..sy penah tya kenapa cikgu tak pergi church dan dia saya igt dia jawab "i dont believe in GOD" oh oke...sy blur but bila sy besar bru sy phm cikgu sy tu ATheis,.hihi..
then tahun berikutnya sy kenal dan bkwn dgn sorg lg budak arab nama Sameerah..dan juga a few bdk perempuan yang lbih besar dpd saya..sorg tu org putih, Julie tak slh namanya dan sorg lg org jepun...dia ada adik lelaki nama tommy..penah skli tommy pukul saya dan sy ckp pd teacher " Miss, Tommy hit my tummy" hahaha...


ms d sn, abu saya sudah pesan...jgn mkn apa2 yg berdaging d kantin sekolah.dan ada a few foods yang boleh amik..sy msih tringat terliur sgguh tgok diorg mkn burger daging...esp time winter..lapar2 dpt hot food..hihih..sllu ibu saya akan pg ke seklh bw lunch..if tak, kami akan pulang ke rumah atau kwn mak sy dtg ke sklh...sy igt ada kwn adik sy, nama Fatimah kot... abu dan umi sllu juga tggalkan sy d rmh diorg kalau ada program atau urusan... sy msih ingt..saya dan adik sy Tasneem sgt tkut pd ayah kawan sy tu...dia sgt garang..walaupun abu sy garang, ttp abu sy tak la garang mcm ayah kwn sy... dia penah letak saya atas almari baju yang tinggi nak smpi ke siling tu..sb nya kami main permainan yang dia tak bg main... and a few times dia marah kami..and some incidence yang mmg buat sy tkut sgt nk ke sana.. bila sy dah besar macm ni baru sy sedar itu dah lbih kps kes abuse..  pernah abu sy tak dpt amik sy di sklh dan pesan suruh ikut dia makcik tu balik ke rumah... sy igt sy tipu makcik tu kata abu akan dtg amik ms lunch.. but then saya dan adik sy Tasneem ke rmh makcik2 bujang Malaysia ms lunch..sy ckp abu sy lmbt dtg n kami lapar..huhu sedih betul... sy igt mcik tu goreng telur mata n mkn dgn roti..sedapnyaaaaa.... n masa on the way nak blik ke slklh, kami dan mkcik tu bertembung dgn abu sy..terkjut abu tgok kami tak ikut mak Fatimah balik.... truk kami kn marah sb g bjalan sndri ke rmh makcik2 bujang tu... mujur tak hilang ke apa... bukan apa..kami takut dkt pkcik, ayah Fatimah tu.... scaryy.... hmmm... bnyk lg memori ms kcik...ada yg igt ada yg tak igt,,,but those adalah yg embedded in mind...


sbnrnya just nak ckp...kdg2 apa yg kita buatkan pd anak2 kita..bila kita mrh, kita pkul, kita tgking..kita tak sdr bnda tu akan bw effect pd anak kita bila besar.... ada ustaz kata, bila kita mrh pd anak, sbnrnya kita EGO sb kita tau anak tak boleh melawan..dia kcik..but if kita treat anak tu sama mcm kita treat org yg equal dgn kita atau org yg lbih tggi dpd kita...kita takkan marah pun anak2 kita...


sy tahu....saya yg skrg adalah hasil apa yg saya alami ms sy kcil..sy tak tipu kata, sy org yg garang dgn anak2 at times...dan ada ms sy sgt lmbut dan sabar dgn anak2. rmi org kata nak anak ramai... but bukan saya kot... saya takut utk pnya anak ramai sb sy rs sy tak mampu nak didik dan hasilkan anak2 yang baik2 mcm abumi sy buat ( mcm kata aku baik plak..uhu...) dgn zaman skrg yg sgt mcbr dan lain2... sy tkut sy tak mmpu mjdi ibu bapa yang baik mcm abumi sy buat....siyes... and then mgkin juga...sy rsa sy pnat mjaga anak...hahah..sb ms kcik2 sy kn jaga adik2 saya yang ramai dan buas itu..esp adik2 lelaki sy....hahaha...tp sy sgt pndi handle budak lelaki... agaknya sb tu Allah kasi anak laki dua org pd sy..if dpt ank prempuan.. pning juga sy.. bdk laki sng nak main...main car, block.bola..pnjt sana sini..hahaha...bdk perempuan...hmmm..main apa yaa...


tpi bila balik bertam baru ni ms kndri kwen adik sy, sronok dpt kumpul ramai2..bergelak tawa....tolong buat kja..walaupun ramai org bmkna bnyak peel yang harus di tempuhi, smuanya setel bila smua org sling backup membackup dan sy spt biasa guna kuasa veto sy utk slsikan apa2 isu berbgkit..hahaha... so sy rs nk tkr stetmen sy..sy nak la juga anak ramai...koman2 5 org...boleh? but sy nak maid tlg buat keja rmh spya saya boleh tumpu msa utk anak2 saja....uhu..aminnnn...


YaAllah ,,engkau murahkan lah rezeki kami sekluarga agar kami sntiasa dlm keberkatan Mu...amin....

Dear * Pad

Dear *Pad, 


Recently I read an article..oppss ...NO!! a bunch of them bout how you are effecting the kids and their mind's... And it really makes me worried about your effect on my kids...as most of the symptoms I have been seeing it in my kid..


Since u arrived in May, my 4 year old son has been slowly changing... from the sweet lil boy to this lil monster most of the time  that makes me stressfull all the time..


so after much discussion, we decide to BANNED you from the HOUSE...


now..now...don't be sad...  yes.... I know you are a good babysitter...you make my jumping n running here n there non stop son into a quiet, well mannered, good boy who never makes or create problems when he was with you. He sat peacefully on the settee or in the room and interact with you,play with you, making ants work, or bake pizza or cakes or play with the Tom Cat with you.. .He clearly adore or love you sooo much that he  throws tantrum and screams and cried when you are taken away from him that makes me feel like I am a bad mom.... I think he just throw tantrums so much bcause he knows that we will give  you to him if he behaves afterwards.


But clearly my son need not just a babysitter who makes him behaves but he also need a parent or a mom...


well you know, a parent or a mom is someone that makes you do all the things that is good for you eventhough you dont like it.. like, eating healthy food, take showers, brush your teeth, take your nap, read your muqaddam and books, entertain you with books and arts and toys and others... hmmm well, you didn't do most of that works...


what?you said you make my son eat? yes yes..of cos you did...but he only eat a bit, just to fullfill the rules that he has to eat or he is not allowed to be with you..but did you see how much he ate? just 3 or 4 tablespoon..don't you see he is getting thinner and thinner esp after he known you? 


and * Pad, 


haven't you been hearing that he cries more frequently in the morning when he was waken up to go to school?well, that is because he didn't get enough sleep at night... well, he was with you till its late..he didn't take a nap in the afternoon because he was playing so much at the school..and when he came home,he played with you and you didn't make him go to bed early when he is tired enough physically ..well,  you have soo much charms and so interesting that he refuse to sleep until you are pried from him...


yes.. I know, since I limit his time with you just for an hour in the evening and no playing with you at night, he has been sleeping a bit better, but then, he watched his dad played with you sometimes that he still sleeps late at night....so the problems are not solved...


yes I know *pad,


 its not totally your fault..its mine and his dad's too..we are so grateful to have you in the family to have you babysit our son so that we have some time for ourselves at night to read or watch movie or just to sleep early, that we left him to your care most of the time that he became addicted and too attached to you... Its our fault too that things got out of hands.. well, he didnt play with his blocks or lego or cars and trucks for quite a time unless you are not at home..he didn't spent time coloring  books with me for a while now..he prefers to be with you than follow me out to play outside in the sun with his lil bro..that is how attached he is with you..havent you heard that he spent the previous weekands at Bertam playing with you instead of with his uncles that he loves soo much???...that is how attached he is with you...


so now, after nearly 2 months, I say, we had enuff of all these tantrums and misbehaviors that we dicided to make a stop to all of this...


so, for now, as I said before, YOU ARE BANNED FROM THE HOUSE!!!...


oh..yes.... yes..you can still come to the house, BUT if only you decided to leave all the games out of the door. 


Well, Tab, you  too...and so are you smartphones... well, if you want to put it in a locked folder and hide it from my intelligent son, you are welcome..but if you ever expose it to my son or let him played with you, you too are BANNED from the house... ARASSooo????


don't worry...I dont think that my son will miss much if you are not with him... well, he will grows up just fine I think without you eventhough you tell me you have all this n that apps that can make him more intelligent and brilliant and so on... But I grow up just fine without you before.... duhhh...so I think he wouldnt miss much...well, he can have it when he is much wiser n older...

Ok...enuff of you arguments and logics *Pad... my say is final... if you choose to avoid my rules...I will find ways to crash your system..yes I will..dont you think I dont know how..I will ask Uncle Google for help.. I have lots of IT person too...they can help me... scared? ok.... 


 good bye now * Pad... so long..till we meet again... Yes,.. yes...until you decide to delete your games, you not welcome in home... 


bye bye now... have a safe journey...

SPECIAL UPDATES : SUSU BUAT Ali Athauri

salam..past week saya mbuat post d KUMP Ibu Menyusukan untuk mencari susu ibu buat adik Ali Athauri..
Ali dilahirkan prem.27 mgu ..skrg ni Ali dah berumur 30 mgu..berat Ali pun dah naik dpd 1.03kg ke 1.15kg hari ni..Ali tak boleh mnum susu formula..mgkin sb Ali anak yg cerdik, dia nk susu yg tbaik saja iaitu susu ibu..but ibu Ali tak boleh nak bg susu ibu buat Ali.. maka kami di wad 1 Nilam cuba utk cari alternatif tbaik utk Ali utk cari ramai ibu utk donate susu buat Ali. but tak nak smpi jd ibu susuan..ada sebb tak dpt nk bg ibu susuan.. mmg ramai kata dan suruh cr  ja ibu susuan but isu yang mghalang ni buat kami betul2 tak dpt nk bg susu dpd satu ibu susuan..rezki Ali mmg murah..raaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamaaaiiiiii sgt nak jdikan Ali anak susuan, tapi apakan daya...tak dpt nak bg....


ramai yg tya..boleh ke buat mcm tuh?bg susu bnyk2 ibu...kami dah buat research dan bntya..boleh..asalkan bg less dpd 5kli knyang...sb Ali hnya mnum sikit. maka, susu if yang fresh kami trus asing kan utk skli mnum..if susu yang frozen, kami minta susu 2 oz sahaja, sorg ibu, 1 oz tiap satu bekas, ..so Ali boleh mnum dua kli satu bekas...so ramai nk bg susu bnyk2..bukan tak sudi terima, but sb Ali mnum sikitttt saja, sayang susu yg bnyak tu dibazirkan..setitis air susu tu lbih mahal dpd emas....rugi dibuang2...so kami nak yg seminimum mgkin pembaziran... setiap susu yg dpt akan msuk dlm LIST IBU SUSU ALI..siap dgn nama dan kontek numb, date bila susu diberi dan date bila bg n bapa kli bagi..ini semua nak elak jd ibu susuan..so sapa2 yg was2 jgn risau.InsyAllah kami cuba yg tbaikkkk utk makesure itu tak berlaku.... InsyAllah...


Hari ni, Ali dah mnum 6 ml  setiap 2 jam..last week hnya mnum 4ml setiap 4 jam..bgus kan...sb tu berat Ali cpt naik.... pndi Ali...last week ms ada mummy Ted dtg jumpa Ali d NICU, ms pggil nama Ali, ckp2 dgn Ali, Ali buka mata dia tgok muka Mummy Ted.dia tgok ja muka mummy Ted dan Abg Adam...cumel sgt...


Ibu qay harap, Ali cpt besar dan sihat ya sayangg..jd anak soleh....buat ms ni tak dpt nk update lg gmbr Ali sb Ali msih dlm incubator..pnuh wayar2 utk pastikan Ali sht...cumel sgt kdg kala Ali tidur terlentang., kdgkala Ali tidur meniarap, tertonggeng punggung..hihi...Ali kcik sgt smpi pampes dia pun kn modified bg muat..hihi...tp Ali bdk baik..xmenangis pun mcm bby lain..tiap kali pg tgok dia tido je..baikkkkk la Ali nii....


if ada any mummies nk derma susu, boleh kntek saya 0193559373 d kota bharu, tganu..penang pun boleh..if d KL boleh cntct Nik Rasyidah.0179018006..dia nk tlg collect ssu n curier pd saya..mudahan usha kita nk bntu si kecil ini berjaya...amin...


smua ini buat Ali Athauri....

I HEART BABYWEARING & BREASTFEEDING

at Incheon ms baru smpi..jauh gile nak jalannn..

during my trip to Seoul, I've seen lots of babywearing activities in Seoul...its mostly seen esp around the shopping area as if you goes to Seoul, most of the place is not really suitable to bring strollers and pushchair... lots of parents use those but around the area that has steep hills and  stairs, crowded with people, babywearing is sure is the easiest way of bringing your child....my BIL brought along strollers for theid kid end up not using it bcause of the inconvenience to use around the subways, bus and steep hills. As I have prep earlier and decide not to bring stroller as Carrier is the easiest way to travel.

tgh tggu subway 

besides the mum, dads also plays a role in babywearing the child. They wear it shamelessly and its sorts of common to see parents wearing their kids rather than in Malaysia or Kb to be precise, people tend to stare at you when you wear your kids... below are some of the pix that I took during my trip of bbywearing...

even the grandmother is sooo cool to babywear...

this couple is wearing one kid each..the dad is wearing a toddler back carry while the mum fornt carry the  infant and holding  the hands of another preschooler...gosh...full handss

baik je bdk ni ddk dlm ni...sjuk sb hujan sama...

if I am not mistaken this is called Chunei..korean pnya SSc kot..it covers the legs  n warm it up..so takla sejuk bdk tu...syok ja bdk ni ikut nenek dia dok bergosip dgn mcik kdi tu..xbnyi suara lgsg...




most of them use  SSC kind..xjumpa lg any ring sling or pouch or wrap..hih..maybe SSC is easier to use..hihi...
suka tgok rmi org babywear...but tak rmi or tak nmpk lgsg org breastfeed in public wpun berlambak nursing room...mgkin smua rs its kinda obscene kot to bf in public sb diorg takde tdg nk ttp kan mcm kita..hihi..ms dlm subway pun bila BF zariff, org pndg2 ke n stare..mgkin plik, mgkin rs obscene...but who cares...hahaha..as long as anak aku knyang.....

sempat lgi nak Bf tgh2 seoul tu

at Hwaseong Palace..smpt lgi nak 

I  HEART BABYWEARING & BREASTFEEDING

Special ENTRY : TOILET..sila jgn baca klau nak makan atau tak lalu...

owh..hri ni post sy psl toilet...main reason sb gerammmmm dgn situasi yang dah lama tjadi...
dpan klinik saya ada Ladies Room..(kaya sgguh aku ada klinik sndri..kikiki) 
as usual nak msuk hr ni,bila ttba ada mkcik ni tahan xbg masuk..s dia kata "ada oghe jate dale tuh..nok jale g toilet oghe jate jauh ke...jd msuk hok ni la dktnya... " aku grrrrr...jauh pun tak la jauh mana...mgkin sdkit mls kot...geram sgguh,....


dah sllu sgt ladies room dpn klinik aku ni org laki masuk...dpd yang muslim ke non muslim, dpd yang sekecik2 budk ke sebesar2 manusia...pdhal men's room tak la jauh mana pun...lbih kpd mls atau tak jmpa cari n mls nk tya then main terjah je bila dah tak sempat...mgkin juga sb signboard tak berapa nak klhatan jd org main terjah ja..aku akui yang tu mmg salah pengurusan..sllu sgt kjdian kitrg nak msuk then ada org laki...kdg tu siap tak ttp pntu...gile okehhhhh...takut aku....kdg2 aku ngepek juga dkt org2 yang msuk ni...ini toilet pompuan..bkn toilet laki....yang tak phm, kdg mak mak2, anak lelaki pun soh msuk saja..if bdk kcik yang tak pndi ke toilet mgkin la di maafkan..but if dah msuk sklh rendah, besar dah, takkan la sluaq pun tak pndi nak buka nak kn mak tggu tlg lagi kot..bg jela msuk toilet laki..bila lagi nak didik anak soh msuk men's room..bila drpd kecik dah ajar. its ok masuk ladies room..so bila besaq pun jd mcm tu la..selamba je msuk tanpa rasa bsalah..penah ada sorg laki ni umur area 30an..aku msuk dia br nak kluaq toilet..siap mcm sngih2...aku tak dan nak kata apa but  muka mmg dah bgkek, dia ckp, " tok de nok g cari toilet oghe jate eh..samo jah keee... laki ko pue...nok wak kijoee seghupo jahh "  ( tak sempat nak cari toilet laki,,sama je kan,,org laki ngan pmpuan buat bnda yg sama ja...) smbil dok betul2kan sluaq dia...okeehh..too many information okes obscene n berbau sdkit blue kottt apa ko buat tu...betulkan la sluaq tu dlm bilik air.....n slamba jerkkkkk aja dia tu...aku trus blah g toilet atas...takpela kn pnjt tgga pun dpd jmpa org tak berapa nak lurus mcm tuh...gila....diorg ni igt toilet sini mcm toilet do korea or us or uk ka yang ada unisex tu...Allah....sometimes I do wonder how these people think...gerammm...


i can tolerate if say, pt laki tu dtg dgn wheelchair, then yng nk tlg tu anak pompuan dia or wife dia..so sb takde toilet utk OKU tpksa la msuk ke ladies room kan..takkan wife nak msuk toilet laki plak..lagi obscene kot...hmm...sb tu la how I wish pentadbiran buat toilet utk OKU cthnya..sng...masa d korea, mana2 toilet msti ada satu khas utk OKU yg easily ascessible n ada tmpt utk nappy change..most of the time, aku msuk toilet OKU bsama zariff sb dlm tu siap ada sinki etc.sng.so guna zariff as excuse..hahaha..as sapa yang sllu g luar msia, toiletnya takde paip mcm dia msia...if ada pun maybe ada bidet..so pndi2 la yer....

toilet yang berbayar yang on the go...kikiki

dah alang2 bckp psl toilet ni. nak share toilet di korea..kira ni mgnmbil ibrah atas musafir di korea baru2 ni juga... toilet d sana..seriusly spotless...seriusly...ada la juga satu dua yg agak kotor tu pun sb overflowing tissue paper..di stesyen subway yang agak sbuk.di tmpt2 lain..spotless...sgt la berbeza dgn toilet kita di malaysia ni...bak kata umi, once u msuk toilet d LCCT u akan segera trsedar . "owh , aku dah smpi ke malaysia !!!"..paham kan meaning ni? pdhal kita as a muslim bknkah mjaga kebersihan itu sparuh dpd iman...kenapa kah kita tak boleh nak jaga kbrsihan toilet kita esp di masjid Rumah Allah...aduh..toiletnyaaa..hmmmm..... itu la.


 tringat kata sapa tak ingt : Ku temui lbih bnyak ciri2 muslim di negara asing yang majoriti pnddknya bkn muslim....berbanding di malaysia 
n ada sapa pnah ckp, if nak tahu org tu pembersih atau pun tidak, msuk bilik air di rmhnya..jika bersih, maka dia mmg seorang pembersih...huhu..smpi begitu skli nilai dan kpntingan toilet itu pd stiap org...

and ada toilet di Korea yang suka sgt sb ada kerusi kecil utk letak bby ini..so ibu2 takla mcm stress nak msuk ladies anak nak letak di mana..kan..sgt awesome....nappy changing di smua tmpt ada...n nursing room dia pun sgt la selesa..rs mcm nak tido aja...masa di EVERLAND resort, kami siap msuk smbhyang dlm tu..sgt selesa dan tenang utk solat...hihi...nak bf tu rs nak tdo trus ja...adik sy kata, tak pnah terpikir plak slama ni...memang la..sb bilik tu org ada anak ja msuk..hihihi....org takde anak mana pnah msuk...hihi

ha n u ols tahu tak dkt Suwon city ada tmpt nama Mr Toilet's house or Toilet Muzium..mmg bntuk dia mcm toilet..kiki..menarik kan...rugi tak pergi ritu..manada kat msia kan...

and dekat suwon palace tu,toilet dia lagi awesome..bila msuk pun takut sb dia ada tgkap kaca yang besar n clear but blkg toilet tu ada pkok buluh yang ttp pemandangan n kiranya org takle la nk skodeng ke apa..kiranya smbil di toilet kita menikmati pemandangan...yang ada pun puteri bunian yang dok di pkok buluh ja kot...kikiki   menarikkan...

scary kot nak msuk toilet ni...hihi..

mcm2 cara nak tarik tourist...baca dlm net d suwon mcm2 cara diorg buat utk tarik tourist dgn upgarde toilet dia ke mcm2 bentuk ..hihih...menarikkan...kat msia ada??hahah jawab la sndri....sekian cerita pasal toilet...sila makan balik sapa yang nak mkan td...

TIPS MENGHADAPI RAMADHAN

post ini saya share from BRO HAMZAH..mudahan jd pnduan buat kita mhgadapi Ramadhan Mubarak..thnx abu for sharing

Sedar atau tidak, kita sudah menghampiri Ramadhan.Hari ini, kita berada di bulan Rejab. Kemudian, seminggu dua lagi kita akan menjejaki bulan Saaban. Dan – akhirnya akan tiba suatu bulan yang amat-amat dirindui iaitu bulan Ramadhan al-Mubarak.“ Abang, apa persiapan kita untuk hadapi Ramadhan ini?,” Soal isteri saya.Terkejut  dan terkedu saya. Suatu soalan yang menyentap perasaan. Seolah-olah tidak menyedari akan kehadiran Ramadhan yang bakal menjelma.“ Persiapan?,” Saya soal diri saya.Persiapan dan persediaan menghadapi bulan Ramadhan amat-amat penting. Ia umpama sesi “warming-up” yang akan memberikan suatu posisi kesediaan yang meliputi aspek kejiwaan, fizikal, rohani, minda dan emosi kita.Justeru, seringkas dan se”praktikal” yang mungkin saya kongsikan warming up menuju Ramadhan yang saya ambil berdasarkan panduan para ulama dan tips-tips oleh kitab-kitab tulisan para ilmuan Islam sebagai rujukan bersama. 

1. Lakukan pembacaan buku daripada kitab-kitab, buku-buku dan artikel-artikel berkaitan dengan Ramadhan.
2. Lakukan warming-up dengan berpuasa setiap Isnin dan Khamis
3. Latihan dan intensif tidur awal dan membiasakan diri untuk bangun awal.
4. Mulakanlah membaca Al-Quran setiap hari dengan penuh tadabur, khusyuk dan terancang.
5. Luangkan masa mendengar lantunan bacaan Al-Quran daripada pasangan anda, qari-qari yang terkenal  dan kaset-kaset radio.
6. Biasakan diri untuk sentiasa memelihara wudhuk.
7. Dekati, hampiri dan bergaul dengan orang-orang yang alim, warak dan soleh.
8. Setiap malam sebelum tidur, bermuhasabahlah diri kita.
9. Perbanyakanlah mendirikan solat sunat setiap hari,  terutamanya di saat sepertiga malam.
10. Dalam sehari, berikanlah masa untuk bersendirian untuk berzikir kepada Allah SWT.
11. Mulakanlah amalan bersedekah, sedikit demi sedikit.
12. Bantulah orang lain yang sangat-sangat memerlukan sama ada dalam bentuk keilmuan, bantuan kewangan, pertolongan kudrat dan kemahiran yang kita miliki.
13. Luangkan masa bersama ahli keluarga, rakan dan sesiapa sahaja 
disekitar anda dan berbincangkanlah tentang Ramadhan yang bakal tiba, persediaan, harapan, perlaksanaan dan sebagainya.
14. Bagi yang berkemampuan untuk mengerjakan umrah, maka rancanglah ia dengan sebaiknya.
15. Hebah-hebahkan, war-warkan dan maklumkan tentang ketibaan Ramadhan yang akan tiba tidak lama lagi kepada kenalan, sahabat handai dan sesiapa sahaja melalui SMS, emel, FB, twitter dan blog-blog anda.

Penutup : Kita mulakan. Mari sama-sama kita mulakan sesi “warming up” ini. Sesi memanaskan jiwa, perasaan, tumpuan dan fokus kita terhadap Ramadhan. InsyaAllah, dengan sedikit persediaan ini kita akan lebih bersedia, terarah, bertenaga dan memiliki matlamat yang jelas untuk dicapai “sesuatu” yang berharga sepanjang bulan Ramadhan nanti. BroHamzahKita Mulakan. Mulakan Sekarang. Do It Now!

kategori manakah kita?

  yang manakah kita?Allahu Rabbi....




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Day Out with MZRs

Took the kids for a morning play out at Taman Tgku Anis yesterday morning...
zariff and zaffran were so excited to be able to walk and run freely...playing on the slides, ramps...

 see the deer and birds....

it is really refreshing for the kids to be able to go out and explore....

zariff had a very long nap in the morning and suprisingly in a very good behaviour compared to the past weeks...

mgkin sb dok rmh opah kot...hihih..ibu bg perhatian kat dia ja..tak pyh nak kms rmh dll...

kesimpulannya; anak2 saya crave attention sy sb tu diorg asyik buat prgi...sb nak sy spend ms dgn dia..bila once ddk n main2 dgn dia.baik aja mood..saya pun tak stress mana..but bila tgok baju yang menimbun..arghhhhh...stress balik...but bak kata Encik suami," awak nak stress apa..sy kan yg dok lipat baju.." gulp..kihkihkih...

apa2 pun..ibu sayang anak2 ibuu...

my Arts with MZR

As I have promised myself, I wanted to spend more time with my kids..so during the weknd, I just ignore the housechores, only did the minimal and spend more time with my kids....our 1st collage is.....

Electrical things in Our house....

as I am a collecter of brosures and catalogues that come to our house and office (that would end up in the garbage in the end), I had lots of material to use...I asked zaffran to walk around the house, rooms and identify the electonic things that we have in the house..then, we cut it and paste it on a paper..

surpirisngly, he can identify most of the things and even things like blender, abah pnya shaver that I missed...clever boy....

he was very proud to show his work after all...

then we made a metamorphosis of the butterfly using my  Polka Dot KoreanCotton leftover from my dress..

 of cos la ibu yang kena tukang potong n tlg tampal sikit2....zaffran asyik suruh lukis ikut gmbr dlm buku serangga yang Tok Mi bg as panduan.....so at least, dia tahu dan ingt..yang tak laratnya nak nyanyi lagu "dari ulat jd kepompong...." uhu....habis buku Eric Carle - Hungry Caterpillar dia cari...hihi....so ibu...layannnnnn aje laaa

see....Im learning sumtg here.....sonok juga buat art dgn budak ni wpun most of the time ibu yang kena siapkan..hihih...

pulih...

Zariff Rayyan....  pelatih jiwa saya mjd org yang sabar dan berlapang dada..

alhamdulillah...sdikit demi sedikit semngat saya pulih...dua tiga hari ini, sy trus2an gagahkan diri yang kepenatan akibat tidak ckup rht dan tidur untk luangkan masa bermain bersama si kecil2 di rumah..melayan kerenah mereka...


zariff tidak sihat sejak smgu..batuk, slsema..mbuatkan dia tidak selesa dan trus terusan menangis dan throw tantrum...ttpi alhamdulillah, dua tiga hari, sy sabar..cuba utk tidak naik suara dan naik angin...bukan salah dia tidak sihat...semua Allah yang beri utk melatih sy mjdi ibu yang lebih penyabar..alhamdulillah..mlm td sy dpt lena tidur..walaupun si kecil dua org msih nak mbuas, sy biarkan mereka main muka sya, pusing2 atas katil, menggeletek adik di dlam kesuraman lampu bilik tidur...biarkan...lama2 mereka lelap sndri..saya?? sudah hanyut kepenatan...sy pejamkan saja mata melihat baju yang belum berlipat dan mainan yang bersepah di luar..esok2 aja kemas...anak2 perlukan saya lbih dpd baju yang di dlam bakul...
dua tiga hari ini, setiap hari, sy cuba seawal pg smpi di pjbt, luangkan masa sblm keja atau smbil2 buat kerja mdgr pgisian dpd IKIM yang boleh dimuat trun...alhamdulillah..sdkit sbnyak mgubat jiwa saya yang serasa ingin patah dan rebah...itu sja yang sy mmpu buat utk mngisi ilmu di dada saya...saya tidak mampu utk ke masjd meninggalkan anak2 mencari ilmu, skdr mdgr di alam maya ataupun jika ada program ilmu di USM yang boleh saya hdirkan diri...alhamdulillah, bertepatan skli dgn Hospital Mesra Ibadah, HUSM bnyak skli mngnjurkan mjlis2 ilmu setiap mgu...smpt atau tidak sahaja utk pergi...nak atau tidak sahaja....selagi diberi kesempatan, InsyAllah, sy cuba dan akan trus mncuba....insyAllah..bkn mudah mjdi ibu yang baik...bkn mdh mjdi muslim yang baik..

mudah2an diberi kekuatan dan kelapangan dada utk trus mhadapi kerenah si kcil sy...

ini azam saya

azam saya sempena rejab ini :

1. satu hari saya nak dgr pgisian yang boleh di load dpd ikim yang masih blum di block oleh USM
2. lbih bnyak jemaah solat bsama suami dan anak2
3. lbihkan msa melihat dan mbaca Alquran dan kurangkan masa d dpn tv. dan mghadap novel
4. lbihkan masa bsama anak2
5. lbihkan ms spend bsama mama dan abumi  selagi boleh...
6. perbaiki diri sy..kurgkan marah..kurgkan naik suara..lbihkan pluk,puji anak dan tak lupa suami....

mudahan Allah bntu saya mjdi a better muslim dan wife,mom