New Blessings in the new year

Introducing our new bundle Of JOY, the 2nd MZR of the Family

                                         MUHAMMAD ZARIFF RAYYAN.... 
yeah yeah! i know its a bit overdue...well almost 3mnths...hihi..well, I blame it on the inadequateness of me of being a mother of two...=)


this little boy came out at 7.59 am on the 9th Jan 2011..9days overdue...if he didnt came out that day, I was already in schedule to be admitted for induce labour....lucky me....I was already in pain at 2am, and the pain keep getting stronger and stronger every 3mins...how innocent of me that I asked my hbsd to go to sleep back at 3am plus for I thought it would be as long as the big bro, and the baby would be delivered much later...well. Im wrong, at 6am, I already have the urged to push, but Im already taking my bath and even had time to shampoo my hair as I thought, well, when Im in confinement I wont be able to wash my hair..hahaha...it took me  a long time to dress as the pain is much stronger and during my contraction, the waterbroke on the bed....huhuhu...my husbnd, despite all the prep i made for delivery, was clearly in faze and unable to remember which bag is mine or zaffran or baby...huhuhu...what a morning..we hurried to the hospital and guess what, we were stucked in the traffic jam of parents sending their kids to school on our way to send zaffran to the nursery..i clearly forgot that school already started in the new yr..sigh...


.zaffran was very quiet as he was scared looking at me, screaming with pain at each cntrction..seriusly..the pain was unbearable..much stronger than when I had Zaffran...he kept saying " sian ibu,,sian ibu...akit??" huhu..poor boy..


 when I was pushed into the labour room, I was already fully dilated and ready to deliver...he came out after well... 4 pushes...I thought with the 2nd delivery, one or two pushes would be enuff, but this little boy's head got stuck..and poor me had to have this episiotomy and 2nd degree tear....sigh...anyway, he wt 3.29kg...yess...quite big...as lots of my collegues said as my tummy is a bit small and his EFW all this while has been below 3kg...maybe its bcause of those Omega 3 capsules i have been taking for the last trim..hahaha

Zariff Rayyan is quite an easy baby to handle...sleep most of the night..not so much kembung like his big bro...a quiet baby, but when he howl, he will scream with all his might....for me, taking care of Zariff is much easier, maybe bcause I already has some experience with his big bro....

on the other hand, this oldest son of mine, is quite a handfull to handle...his tantrum after he got his lil bro, is much worse than usual...maybe bcause he wanted more attention from me, jelous with his lil bro but cannot tell his feelings...so he channel it tru his tantrums...before this, his tantrums already wind down and manageable..but nowadays....the only way is to cuddle him and talk to him...its quite a challenged for me during confinement as I cannot carry him, and attend to him all the while..and most of the time, left him to my dearest mum and dad to tackle him...huihu...tq abumi...feels guilty some of the time as I cannot cuddle him as usual but I'm adapting day by day to divide my time between my 3 men...huhuh and Im sure am getting better at it.

if the baby is sleeping, I try to spend time with him, playing or reading books or watch his edactional Cd or his fave Mr Bean or show on PHD..or when his dad is around, he will take care of him while I tend to the baby...sometimes its just too much to handle that I just let him have his tantrums as Im already exhausted with work, housechores and the baby..and his dad will tkeover..luckily the baby is not that fussy......I do wonder how a mum of 7 can handle such a tough job...me handling just 2, makes my world upside down....

Oh yes..we have just move to the new house...the long due new house..if those I frequently chat to or talk to will know what a journey I went tru to get this new house of us completed...after months of hassle and bussle and many sleepless nights thnking bout the new house, we have official move in on the 1st Mac..yeay...
so after this, no more shopping for me, or buying unnecssary things and definitely no more ON9 shopping...Im already broke..hihi but seriusly, its worth every penny and sweats....its now the time to save for Haj... 

it may not be as exclusive or lavish or huge as some people's house, but its sure is home for me, zulffi, n our two boys Zaffran and Zariff...=)