Love is not about finding the right person,but creating the right relationship. It’s not about how much love you have in the beginning, but how much love you build till the end…..
Wednesday, April 16, 2008
28 weeks and still going strong..
Your baby weighs approximately 2.4 pounds and is about 10 inches from crown to rump, or a little under 16 inches from head to toe. He or she has been gaining weight steadily during the past 27 weeks as its stem cells develop into organs, blood and immune systems, and bones. However, from this point forward, your baby's weight gain will be due to increasing amounts of body fat. A quick way to predict your baby's birth weight is to average your partner’s and your birth weights.
Most of what your baby does from now on concerns maturing in preparation for life outside of his watery world. Blood vessels are maturing in your baby’s lungs so that when he is born he is ready to take his first breath. Up to the minute he is born the placenta will provide him with the oxygen he needs, but after that he has to learn to use his lungs on his own. If you could see your baby this week you would see him go through a series of expressions including grimacing, frowning and what looks like a smile. Babies don’t learn to smile until they are around six weeks but often prior to six weeks their mouths curl in a certain way that makes them look like they are smiling.
Your stomach is probably feeling a bit squashed this week, so switch to eating small meals regularly rather than a big roast dinner, especially late at night so as not to keep your stomach digesting as you go to bed.
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yesterday I woke up early in the morning when suddenly I had this painful leg cramp on my rite leg.It was so painful that I shouted for Zulffi to help me ease the pain. He was downstairs and he ran up to me. He then slowly massage the leg until the cramp vanished...so thankful that I had him with me..He was grinning at me..he thought I was going into labour as I was shouting for him quite loud..hehehe..well I thought he wouldnt hear me...hehehe..but the pain in the leg kept throbbing till today.. maybe I need to take more milk than the one Im taking now or more Calsium supplement besides the multivit n spirulina Im taking now..huhuhu
Yesterday was my ANC checkup..my current wt is 61kg.hmmmm..still rising but not that much..thank God...I had to have the Anti Tetanus Toxoid shot to prevent from "Kancing gigi"?
I was unable to lift up my left arms high n unable to sleep on my left side as usual...we had our scan yeterday..the baby is healthy n moving a lot..the heart beat is strong and the growth is normal..so all together is Alhamdulillah...we was unable to see the baby's sex..just to determine whether its a boy or girl but...its ok...maybe he was shy..heheheh..so watever it is, we accept it with our open heart n luv...
past few weeks, I had been cutting down my sugar intake as I usually had this cravings to take sweet stuff most of the time..I was afraid of GDM or my wt increasing tooo much....so Im taking it slow...although I still crave for sweet stuff, I only try to take sum everyday..n more plain water. I can't take much foods nowadays..I would be fulled easily and started to have this shortness of breath esp during after meal..so now I try to reduce my rice portion to maybe 1 1/2 scoop per meal, esp dinner..as it makes me feels like throwing up or regurge when I had my Mgrib prayer esp when I 'Sujud"..the foods feels like coming out again...I cant have long sujud esp after dinner.. even if I read Quran after mgrb, it will make me gasping for breath to reach the Harakat of the tajwid...as my baby is growing bigger n bigger, so is my stomach...
now I can't even wear sum of my baju kurung as it proves to be tighter esp in the waist...thank God I had make sum new ones esp for prgnancy n bought sum pants n blouses..heheh...
Lately it was soooooo HOT...with my current hypermetabolic system n rising hormones makes me sweat easily...the weather is so hot lately and it doesnt help with my condition...usually I had to take 5 times bath from evening til bedtime.one in the evening, one before and after Mgrb, one before and after Isyak...and sumtimes one before bedtime....hehehe..Thank God the water supply at home is free..heheh..
all that is happening to me is a new experience..to me n zulffi...I never know that it takes so much to be prgnnt...I usually feels like freaking out when I look in the mirror n see my body growing n enhancing here n there...hmm..would I get my shape again???hmmmm...well, i vow to myself Im going to Yoga class after delivery...we'll see whether Im going or not..hahahahah..
Wednesday, April 9, 2008
shopping for mummy n baby
afterwards we went shopping for baby's clothes..well we bought some clothes but other things we decide to buy in KB..no need to buy in Penang when the price is the same or more expensive than in KB...but what Im trying to say is, both of us was sooooooo excited choosing the clothes n tying to find the style that suite both of us interest..I prefer colourful clothes, with cartoons or patterns.but Zulffi like plain one, or white ones..so we decide on both...the pants is colourful, but the top is white with sum small cartoons...and when I packed the clothes into my bag, n still now when I saw the clothes it just makes me feel that I cant wait to hold my bby in my arms..so is zulffi....I just cant believe it Im gonna be a mummy in few more weeks....huhuhuh...
last week I went to Billion n I already find this mosquito net n one travelling bag for the baby which has POOH n its in BLUE....!!!!!!!!!!..hahahaha....Im buying that one later on.....thank God I went to Billion...I only want most of the things in blue or have POOH..hahaha..POOH fanatics...heheh..hmmm...bila nak g shopping lagi eh.....this weeknd???hmmppphhhh
Tuesday, April 8, 2008
week 27: my active baby
Fetal Development
Your baby weighs approximately 2 pounds and measures about 9.6 inches from crown to rump. His or her facial features are almost fully developed and synchronizing enough that he or she may make faces that are visible on an ultrasound. Your baby’s skin is becoming thicker and fleshier and increasingly wrinkled, thanks to the amniotic fluid. The skin will remain wrinkled for the first month or so after birth – just think about how your hands or feet look after you have been in the water for just 30 minutes! During this week, the brain continues its rapid growth, and the lungs continue to develop.
I find sumtg about my baby the past few weeks..usually my baby is very active..day or nite..sumtimes I can only feel he moves in the morning only or at nite..but when, I went back to Mama's house or to penang like last week, he was quite passive..I cant feel him kicking or moving that much..so i was unable to let Harith feels the baby moving inside of me...I do wonder why..is it because I was so exhausted most of the days n did not have enuf rest or he's shy??heheheh... N my bby tend to listen to what was told to him..as example, sumtimes the bby keep on kicking so much that makes me feels uncomfortable n sort of "geli"...zulffi would talk to him n asked him to go to sleep or slow down as mummy is tired or sumtg...then u would feel him just stop kicking or moving so much..sumtimes Zulffi says salam to him in the morning when he havent wake up yet from his sleep, then suddenly I can feel the baby kicking n moving like telling me he is awake n ready to face the world...maybe the baby does listen to the words I said/told him..hehehe..or as Hajra maybe the baby dont like to be told what to do..merajuk sng kata..hehehe..mgkin kot..yesterday when the baby was kicking n moving so much, I called EL so she can feel the baby..she was excited n she said to the baby, to be a gud boy n dont kick mummy...the baby suddenly slow down the move..n when Hajra wants to feel the baby, she cant feel anytg as he had stopped moving..heheh..poor Hjra..nextime ya....
the completed list...
The LIST
Laksa Din, Teluk Kechai - sampai dua hari aku mkn laksa ni..mmg puas hati la...sdap shgga rs nak hirup smpi abis...huhu..berbaloi sekilo rm10..hahaha..lps ni aku takkan tmmpi2 lagi...
Char Kuey Teow - boleh tahan sdap..but sdap lagi abg yg biasa msk tuh..but ok la utk lps gian..hahaha
Choc Cake Moist - ni Aunty Jal yg blikan n jamu ms g mkan steamboat kat umah dia...bru tringat2 nak bli kek..heheh..Maha Penyayang Allah ni, ilhamkan pd Aunty Jel utk blikan kek jamu aku..May Allah bless her
Pulut santan dengan buah mempelam manis... - uihhh..sdap sguuuhhhh..dah lama aku tringin..bknnya payah nak buat but air tgn ummi juga yg sdap...mjilat jari aku...
Pulut Sekaya Ummi- uish..yg ni lg best...wpun kat Kb pun ada, but yg ummi buat juga aku nak..heheh
mee rebus umi - sayangggg ummi..sbut skli ja..tgok2 ptg tuh dah buat..msih trsa ksdapan dan klmbutan dgg dlm kuah mee rebus tuh..ish...terliur plak aku..ahahah
Steamboat - sayannggg Anty Jel...pnat2 buatkan steamboat utk aku...smpi 4 pnggan aku mkn kira berbaloi la kan Anty Jel..hehehe..sbnrnya dah lama tringat2 steamboat Anty Jel ni yg dia buat Raya cina thun lps...sdapppp...
Cendul di Boomtown Kpla Btas - huih...puas hati dpt mkn cendul ni..mmg best la...lpas gian aku..hahaha
Putu Mayam - hmmm..merata aku cari putu mayam ni..kat klntn sah2 takdak..balik Aloq staq pun tak jmpa..kdi tak buka..frust2..p pasar Tani pun takdak juga..last2 ms hntr aris blik sekolah tjmpa la juga kat Pasar tani kat situ..ok la utk puas kan hati..wpun tak sebest di aloq staq, puas hati la juga..hehehe
MMg gile aku mkn balik penang ni..but sumanya bkn mkn shari but in 5days time..kira ok la kan...kalo tak blik sini takde ummi nak pampered n tlg mskkan....hnya ada zulffi nak tlg crikan apa nak mkn...for that I am thnkful for given such wonderful parents n zulffi to fulfill my every whim..heheheh..muahhhssss
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
my baby, my love...

the day before, we went to survey clothes n things for the baby so we can have some ideas n price to buy the baby's necessities in Penang...well, most of the thing I found cute n sweet that caught my
eyes is the pink one..hahah..and of course all of Pooh's Collections..all the hats, booties, pants, tops, even the mosquito net is Pooh...my..my..my..what a delight....cant wait to start buying..Zulffi said its not suitable for a boy to where Pooh but nobody said it can't be done or its a rule that must be obeyed...I'll buy all Pooh's thing for the baby..hehehhe..Cant wait to go shopping this weekend...Im telling all my frens to buy only pooh thing for the baby..hahahaha.and the theme color is BLUE Everyone....not PINK!!!hehehe..
n talking about shopping, I need to get a maternity dress or pants n blouses...just to get everybody mind from asking "when are you going to wear maternity dress or when are changing your dress" hmpphh..quite bored to answer it actually...as long as I can still wear my baju kurung, then what is the use of buying clothes that I would only wear for a month or two...but seriously, I need to buy some new clothes as all my pants is too tight n some of my baju kurung is quite fitting esp the at the waist..hmmm..so we'll see if we can find sumtg in Penang that catch my eyes...hmm and not to forget to send my "kain" to the tailor to make sum new baju kurung in Penang...new clothes for the baby n mummy...=P
Tuesday, March 18, 2008
24 weeks n counting...

Wednesday, March 12, 2008
boy or girl???

huhu..so Im into more than half of the prgnncy...the baby is more active..kicking much harder n moving a lot whether day or nite..it doesnt really bothers me but just a comfort to me..the love for the unborn baby is growing as well as the love towards zulffi...I love it when he touch my tummy n say salam to the baby n talk to the baby...heheh..he's so cute n adorable that way..
zulffi started to find names for the baby..he said, Im into my 6th month but we still havent bought anytg or think about the name yet..well, I have sum that I want but doesnt really favour it..I really like the name Rifqi ZiQri...or Rifqah or Rifhan...also with Zafran, Zahran..sumtg unique n not common..but the choice of names had to be mutual as its our baby...last nite, zulffi say salam to the baby n call him Mohd Zahran Rifqi..suddenly the baby kick so hard, a few times...even I was shocked..heheh..maybe he really like the name or not..heheh..but until the next scan next week, we wouldnt decide on anytg yet..maybe its a boy or a girl..who knows..I tend to find boys names, but I often look at girls things or the color of pink...or cute little girl...hmmm...I do wonder what would it be...boy or girl.... but whether its boy or girl, I would always love him or she....hehehe...
so what do u think?wanna bet???hehehe
Thursday, March 6, 2008
a new blessing...

last nite, u were so active..kicking mummy so hard in mummy's tummy...it really is a joy to feel u moving n active inside...I really love feeling u kicking n moving..n when daddy had the chance to feel u moving, he would smile so wide with such joy in his eyes..n this morning, u woke me up so early kicking me actively..maybe its ur way of wishing me happy bday dear..heheh..tq so much dear...
today is my special day n i intend to be happy n enjoy the day...ur aunty Hajra already gave me a cute teddy bear that is sooo fluffy n cute early in the morning in cute black box with a pink reabon..heheh...=)tq dear..
hopefully today gonna turn out just fine for me...
27 more weeks to go n mummy is counting the day to hold u in my arms...so cannot waitttt...
Monday, March 3, 2008
23rd weeks n counting...
n then my feet tend to ache although zulffi said "no urat simpul" there..heheh...n I frequently have this back ache usually in the middle of the nite...sumtimes at 3am..then I wouldnt be able to sleep afterwards bcoz of the pain...huhuhu...last 2 weeks I just had to take the day off on Thursday so I would be able to sleep most of the morning due to the frequently insomnia at 3 am onwards..huhuh..it was so bad to the extend that I cannot fully function or think well enuff n with the students attachment, its just makes me grumpy n tired..huhu...
it really is an experience of a lifetime..I guess my body is preparing me for the future ahead when the baby come, when I had 2 wake up in the middle of the nite to feed the baby or change diaper, not getting enuf sleep when the baby is not feeling well, or just didnt want to sleep, or just want to play in the middle of the nite...I guess this is a training time for me I suppose..hehe....
can't wait for the baby to come...
besides all that, there is this the bright side that I really lurve..I have started feeling the baby kicking or moving in my tummy...its sorts of like a butterfly fluttering in ur stomach or sumtig small moving in my tummy...it really delights me..hahaha...n sumtimes the kick is quite strong that I can really feels it..when I'm stressed up or on a tension state, I can feel the baby is quite restless as well...last week when I wasn't able to sleep for the whole nite in KL, the baby was also actively kicking n moving...its like he's keeping his mummy company...heheh..tq dear...luv u for that...there's dis one time when I put the TV remote control on my tummy, the baby kick quite hard that makes the remote actually moved...heheh..what a strong kick u have my dear..learning taekwondo are u dear?hehehe....
cant wait for the nexy ANC apmnt to scan the baby..whether its a boy or girl....any guess???
emotional woooess..
I tend to want my hubby cuddling me, hugging me, always be with me, caressing my hair all the time,...n vice versa with me to him..It's just I want to feel love n cherish by him all the time...I hate it when people raise their voice at me even for small mistakes, or things that really is not a big deal...if peole is mad at me for the way I feel, then what can I do or say....its this hormon changes or what i dont know...zulffi wont let me indulge myself in this hormonal changes reason to evrytg that I feel..he said once its not an excuse for all the mood swings or PMS symptoms...well...it applied to my prgnncy changes I supposed..but watever it is, no matter how do I feel, the only escape is tru sleep, books, n just be with myself, keeping to myself to let this foreign feelings settles by itself..as nobody is gonna "pujuk" me coz they usually dont have a clue..hmmphhh...